here i am, trying to get back into the swing of things and figuring out the "new normal." right now, normal is focusing on resting and eating and trying to return to a healthy me. i'm very thankful to have help from so many, and this week we are enjoying my mom being here...C is especially enjoying that. :) i have some pretty strict limitations on what i may/may not do, so i've been spending a lot of time on the couch. boo. hiss. i am a B.A.D. patient when it comes to resting. in order to pass the time and try to be productive (i thrive on productivity), i've been spending lots of time reading, and too much time on pinterest...anyone who's been in my house for any length of time lately will tell you i've been on pinterest...and i have found some cool stuff that i've shared with...well, anyone who will listen. :)
more on that later. for now, here's a book suggestion for you. i discovered this book on Kristin's blog, and the title caught my interest. i do not find myself to be reluctant when it comes to entertaining or showing hospitality, but the book sounded interesting anyway. i'm really glad i read it, because it has some great tips/ideas for entertaining, as well as some yummy recipes! i was able to get a copy (quickly) from my local library system, but here's a link so you can check it out on amazon...
this book is written particularly to those who find themselves intimidated by having folks into their homes. her point is that your home does not have to be perfect, the meal does not have to be perfect or gourmet, and usually, your guests will enjoy themselves more if you are relaxed and not stressed about those things. and, you will enjoy them more too. :)
we recently had opportunity to show hospitality in a last minute situation and we opted to have my husband pick up take-out (fried chicken). i was really bothered by it at first, but it made for a much more relaxing afternoon/evening, so i was really glad we made that decision.
i think in the back of our minds (or sometimes the front!), we all tend to think that the house has to look like a magazine picture, and the meal has to be perfect, the kids have to be perfectly well-behaved, and the conversation has to be interesting, inspiring, and always flowing. this book really helps you to look past that and see what true hospitality really is.
i read it in an afternoon while my husband was working and my daughter was sleeping...about 2-3 hours. recipes and pictures are mingled throughout and it's an easy and delightful read. hope you enjoy!